#Fiction Monday (274) Our lessons... - Lectiile noastre...

This game is hosted by Vinitha Dileep, on her blog  'The Void Thoughts' and
I discovered it on Esha's  blog. This time  the  word prompt is 'LESSON'.

'Cele mai importante lectii nu sunt 
invatate. Sunt experimentate'.

It’s a word that’s come up many times here. Perhaps because at some point I began to 
interpret certain events -(many of them unpleasant, but not necessarily so)- as lessons. 
I have no idea when I first adopted this approach. But it was certainly sparked by a text 
that clarified certain sequences of past events for me. And I inevitably came to replace the 
idea of “coincidences” with “synchronicities.” 
Don’t imagine that this shift happened overnight. But it took shape as I began to pay closer 
attention to the chain of causes and effects and especially to my own influence on that chain. 
And only after I got past my own self-criticism, sarcasm and frustrations did life’s lessons 
begin to unfold more clearly. That’s when I realized it’s better to interpret events as 
challenges, rather than let myself be carried away by my own emotions or those of others. 
In this way, my mind took on its role and solutions emerged more easily. 
But the lessons that nature so generously offers are the ones worth learning, simply because 
they create the balance we’re always seeking. Everything unfolds without haste, in a flow of 
perfect elegance. And we are part of the nature, influencing one another, regardless of what 
we think about these influences.
With a little attention and mindfulness, we will surely discover many lessons that are useful 
to us. Lessons not learned in school but in the flow of life. And that makes them all the more 
important!  In any case, let’s not imagine that we’ll have no more lessons to learn. 
But just as important is what we constantly seek to discover, things that resonate with the 
purpose of our journey or with solving problems that are (perhaps) old, unlearned lessons. 
I absolutely love this process, which I consider just as important as breathing, because every 
new experience brings transformation, experimentation and improvements along our way. 
It keeps us lively and alert as we discover the challenges of the game of life. 

'Fara regrete in viata. Doar lectii invatate.'

Este un cuvant ce a aparut de multe ori pe aici. Poate pentru ca am inceput la un 
moment dat sa interpretez anumite evenimente - (multe din ele neplacute, dar nu neaparat)-
ca lectii. Habar nu am cand s-a intamplat pentru prima data o astfel de abordare.
Insa sigur a fost generata de o scriere ce mi-a clarificat anumite succesiuni de evenimente
anterioare. Si am ajuns inevitabil la inlocuirea coincidentelor cu sincronicitati.
Sa nu va imaginati ca fenomenul s-a petrecut peste noapte. Insa s-a cristalizat pe masura ce 
am inceput sa fiu mai atenta la lantul de cauze si efecte si mai ales la influenta mea asupra 
acestui lant. Si, abia dupa ce am trecut peste propriile autocritici, ironii si suparari, lectiile 
vietii au inceput sa se deruleze mai clar. Atunci am priceput ca e mai bine  sa  interpretez 
evenimentele ca pe provocari si nu sa ma las purtata de emotiile mele sau ale celorlalti. 
In felul acesta gandirea isi intra in rol si solutiile apareau mai usor. 
Insa  lectiile  pe care natura le ofera cu atata generozitate sunt cele care merita  invatate,
pur si simplu pentru ca ele genereaza echilibrul pe care il cautam mereu. 
Totul se deruleaza fara graba, intr-un flux de o eleganta perfecta. Iar noi facem parte din 
natura, influentandu-ne reciproc, indiferent ce credem despre aceste influente. 
Cu putina atentie si prezenta, cu siguranta vom descoperi multe lectii utile noua.
Lectii neinvatate in scoala ci in curentul vietii. Deci cu atat mai importante!
Oricum, sa nu ne imaginam ca nu vom mai avea lectii de invatat. Dar la fel de important
este si ceea ce ne dorim constant sa descoperim, rezonand cu tinta drumului nostru sau 
cu rezolvarea unor probleme ce sunt (poate) lectii vechi neinvatate.
Imi place maxim acest proces, pe care il consider la fel de important ca respiratia, 
pentru ca orice noutate aduce transformari, experimente si inbunatatiri de parcurs.
Ne tine vioi si alerti in descoperirea provocarilor  jocului vietii.    

'Lectiile in viata vor fi repetate
pana cand sunt invatate'.

'Una dintre cele mai bune lectii pe care 
o poti invata in viata este sa stapanesti 
modul in care sa ramai calm'.

#Fiction Monday (273) -  Let's play

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