#Fiction Monday (222) - The graphic of the words Grafica cuvintelor

This game is hosted by Vinitha Dileep, on her blog  'Reflections' and
I discovered it on Esha's  blog. This time  the  word prompt is 'HURT'.

There have been many painful moments that I didn't really know how to handle, 
much less to think about the balance of their effects over time. Now the situation is different. When something hurtful happens, I try not to panic and understand the reasons for the 
cause. This approach delays a thoughtless reaction. Because, statistically speaking, these 
rarely generated truly useful solutions. 
Just when I was wondering how to approach this subject, by chance I received a special book: 'Angel Words - Visual Evidence of How Words Can Be Angels in Your Life', by Doreen Virtue and Grant Virtue. Here I saw graphic images of some words or expressions. And they were 
much broader for positive, pleasant words and narrower for negative words, or those that 
can generate sadness, hurt, the idea of lack, etc. Based on this discovery, the authors talk 
about positive, high-energy words that can change our lives for the better and the adverse 
effects of the negative words. 
I quote a small paragraph from the book: 
'Another fascinating study has shown that even reading negative words can trigger the pain centers in the brain. Thomas Weiss, a professor of psychology... concluded: "Words alone are capable of activating our pain matrix."' Another interesting conclusion is given: 
'our brain registers negative words faster than the positive ones. Apparently this is a survival mechanism, which helps us feel and avoid danger.' 
If the words can heal our lives, why wouldn't we experience this type of healing? 
We would  have everything to gain.

Au fost destule momente dureroase pe care nu prea am stiut cum sa le gestionez,
cu atat mai putin sa ma gandesc la bilantul efectelor lor, functie de timp. 
Acum situatia este diferita. Cand ceva dureros se intampla, imi dau silinta sa nu 
ma panichez si sa inteleg motivele cauzei. Aceasta abordare intarzie o reactie negandita.
Pentru ca, statistic vorbind, acestea arareori au generat solutii cu adevarat utile.
Exact  cand ma tot intrebam cum sa abordez acest subiect, intamplarea a facut ca 
sa primesc o carte deosebita:
'Cuvinte ingeresti - Dovezi vizuale despre felul in care cuvintele pot fi ingeri in
viata dumneavoastra', de Doreen Virtue si Grant Virtue.
Aici am vazut  imagini grafice ale unor cuvinte sau expresii. Si ele erau mult mai 
ample pentru cuvinte pozitive, placute si mai inguste pentru cuvinte negative,
care pot genera tristete, durere, ideea de lipsa, etc.
Pornind de la aceasta descoperire, autorii vorbesc despre cuvintele pozitive, cu energie
inalta, care ne pot schimba viata in bine si efectele adverse ale cuvintelor negative.
Redau un mic paragraf din carte: 
'Un alt studiu fascinant a aratat ca pana si citirea unor cuvinte negative, poate 
declansa centrii durerii din creier. Thomas Weiss, profesor de psihologie... a ajuns
la concluzia:"Cuvintele singure sunt capabile sa activeze matricea durerii noastre"'.
Mai este redata o concluzie interesanta: 'creierul nostru inregistreaza cuvintele
negative mai rapid decat cele pe cele pozitive. Aparent acesta este un mecanism de
supravietuire, care ne ajuta sa simtim si sa evitam pericolul.'
Daca cuvintele ne pot vindeca viata, de ce nu am experimenta acest tip de vindecare?
Am avea numai de castigat.

'Raneste-ma cu adevarul, dar niciodata
nu ma alina cu o minciuna'.

'Cand te doare, observa.
Viata incearca sa te invete ceva'.

'Sunt ranit, trist si in durere. Insa 
zambesc si nimeni nu stie'.

#Fiction Monday (221) - A complicated target

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