#Fiction Monday (182) - Our surprises! - Surprizele noastre!

This game is hosted by Vinitha Dileep, on her blog  'Reflections' and
I discovered it on Esha's  blog. This time  the  word prompt is 'SURPRISE'.

'In viata nu pierdem prieteni, doar
invatam cine sunt cei adevarati'.

The word 'surprise' is usually accompanied by 'unexpected'. Otherwise it
wouldn't be called...surprise. But this level has its limitations, especially as we grow up.
Because we see the most fabulous meaning in the reaction of the children who discover
what they didn't know. And even if the time had not come to say words, the shine of their
eyes and the agitation of their body say everything about the emotion caused by what they
see or receive.
But as an adult, things have changed. And I really wonder what event qualifies to receive
the name of surprise? The unexpected gestures that we do for others can be surprises
for them. But I found that many of the surprises experienced by myself were just the
ending, caused by a chain of other previous events, which I became aware of too late
to modify their effects, sometimes happening against my evolution. Now, I would  be
naive to think that there are many people interested in my evolution.
This must be part of my own agenda.
And precisely because of this goal, I kept crossing myself with ideas or situations that  demonstrated me that the law of attraction is perfectly functional.
Many of the discoveries I shared during these games, which in the end I can consider
them as a kind of vectors of my own discoveries. Maybe they don't seem very spectacular
to you, but the scale of the spectacularity of the surprises is strictly personal, taking into
account our own beliefs. But it is worth paying attention to what is happening to us and to
see with what ideas we resonate. This is for the good of  ourselves and our loved ones.
And let's not forget that if we haven't found solutions to solve a subject yet, it doesn't
mean that they don't exist. It's just that we have to refine the questions and searches.
And if some situations spoil my 'Zen', my attitude towards such unpleasant surprises
is also a choice...
Even if it is almost impossible to conclude this topic, I still say that the nature and the life  generate the most fabulous surprises, precisely to 'wake up' us from our deadly routine.
They constantly bring to our attention the idea that we are interconnected through our
energies and that everything we do and think affects all in ways almost impossible to imagine. And if it's difficult or bad for me, I should discover something worth changing in my life,
before to decide other solutions.
I think I said it before, I don't believe in the idea that our life doesn't have an
instruction manual. It is just encoded in us and discovering it should be on top of the
list on our agenda...

'Nu le spune oamenilor cum sa faca lucruri,
spune-le ce sa faca si lasa-i sa te surprinda
cu rezultatele lor.'

Cuvantul 'surpriza' vine de obicei insotit de 'neasteptat'.  Ca altfel nu s-ar mai
numi... surpriza. Insa acest palier are limitarile lui, mai ales pe masura ce crestem.
Pentru ca cel mai fabulos inteles il observam la reactia copiilor care descopera
ceea ce nu stiau. Si chiar daca nu a venit vremea rostirii cuvintelor, stralucirea
ochilor si agitatia trupului spun totul  despre emotia provocata de ceea ce vad sau
primesc. Insa ca adult, lucrurile s-au schimbat. Si chiar ma intreb ce eveniment se
califica pentru a primi numele de surpriza?
Gesturile neasteptate, pe care le facem pentru ceilalti, pot fi surprize pentru acestia.
Insa am constatat ca multe din surprizele traite au fost doar finalul provocat de un
lant de alte evenimente anterioare, pe care le-am constientizat prea tarziu pentru a
le modifica efectele, uneori petrecute in defavoarea evolutiei mele. Acum, ar fi o
naivitate sa cred ca sunt multi cei interesati in evolutia mea.
Insa aceasta este obligatoriu sa faca parte din propria agenda.
Si exact din cauza acestei  tinte, m-am tot intersectat cu idei sau situatii ce mi-au 
demonstrat ca legea atractiei este perfect functionala.
Multe din descoperiri le-am impartasit pe parcursul acestor jocuri, ce pana la urma
le pot considera ca un fel de vectori ai propriilor descoperiri. Poate ca nu vi se par
spectaculoase, insa scara spectaculozitatii surprizelor este strict personala, tinand
cont de propriile credinte. Merita insa sa fim atenti la ce se intampla cu noi si sa
vedem la ce idei rezonam. Asta spre binele nostru si al celor dragi noua.
Si sa nu uitam ca daca nu am gasit inca solutii pentru rezolvarea unui subiect,
nu inseamna ca ele nu exista. Doar ca trebuie sa rafinam intrebarile si cautarile.
Iar daca unele situatii imi strica 'Zen'-ul, atitudinea mea fata de astfel de surprize
neplacute, este si ea o alegere...
Chiar daca este aproape imposibila o incheiere a acestui subiect, totusi spun ca
natura si viata insasi genereaza cele mai fabuloase surprize, tocmai pentru a ne
'trezi' din mortala noastra rutina. Ne aduc permanent in atentie ideea  ca suntem
interconectati prin energiile noastre si ca tot ceea ce facem si gandim afecteaza
totul in moduri aproape imposibil de imaginat. Si daca mi-e greu sau rau, ar
trebui sa descopar ceva ce ar merita sa schimb in viata mea, inainte de a decide
alte solutii.
Parca  am mai spus-o, insa nu cred in ideea ca viata noastra nu are un manual
de utilizare. Este doar incifrat in noi si a-l descoperi ar trebui sa fie cap de lista
pe agenda noastra.

'Misterul este in centrul creativitatii.
Acesta si surpriza'.

#Fiction Monday (181) - Again about questions

 
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Just some interesting ideas. / Cateva idei interesante.