#Fiction Monday (218) - The courage of asking help - Curajul de a cere ajutor

This game is hosted by Vinitha Dileep, on her blog  'Reflections' and
I discovered it on Esha's  blog. This time  the  word prompt is 'HELP'.

'Daca vrei sa iti atingi scopurile,
ajuta-i pe altii sa si le atinga pe ale lor'.

When I still hadn't decided how to start this text, I received a kind of quote on my phone,
the source of which I couldn't discover, but I'm writing it anyway:
"The rule of 3!
3 things are the most precious in life: love, faith and trust.
3 things never come back: time, word and chance.
3 things are uncertain in life: power, luck and wealth.
3 things should not be lost: peace, hope, dignity.
3 things destroy a person: wine, pride, malice.
3 things define a person: work, sincerity, perseverance.
3 things are the most difficult to say: 'I love you', 'Forgive me', 'Help me'."

There are many ideas that I have read about or even remembered them, but I realized that indeed, asking for help is the most complicated.
Maybe because I was somehow superimposing the idea on something else, something similar
to an dependency or a loss of freedom, which basically means a lack of trust.
However, I think that something important is missing from this matrix of rule of 3:
the courage! We need some courage to discover how to live our lives and especially how
to ask for help from people or from the Creator.
Even if we don't see Him, that doesn't mean that He doesn't hear us.

'Cel mai bun mod de a te regasi, este
sa te pierzi in ajutorarea celorlalti'.

Cand inca nu ma hotarasem cum sa incep acest text, am primit pe telefon
un fel de citat, a carui sursa nu am reusit sa o descopar, insa il scriu totusi:
"Regula de 3!
3 lucruri sunt cele mai de pret in viata: dragostea, credinta si increderea.
3 lucruri nu se mai intorc niciodata: timpul, cuvantul si sansa.
3 lucruri sunt nesigure in viata: puterea, norocul si averea.
3 lucruri nu trebuie pierdute: pacea, nadejdea, demnitatea.
3 lucruri il distrug pe om: vinul, mandria, rautatea.
3 lucruri il definesc pe om: munca, sinceritatea, perseverenta.
3 lucruri sunt cel mai dificil de spus: 'Te iubesc', 'Iarta-ma', 'Ajuta-ma'."

Sunt multe idei despre care am citit sau chiar le-am amintit si eu, insa mi-am
dat  seama ca intr-adevar, a cere ajutorul este cel mai complicat. Poate pentru
ca suprapuneam cumva ideea peste altceva, ceva similar cu o dependenta sau cu
o pierdere a libertatii, ceea ce semnifica  in fond lipsa de incredere.

Din matricea aceasta a regulii de 3, cred  insa ca lipseste ceva important: curajul!
Ne trebuie ceva curaj sa descoperim cum sa ne traim viata si mai ales cum sa 
cerem ajutor de la oameni sau de la Creator. Chiar daca pe Acesta nu Il vedem,
asta nu inseamna ca nu ne aude.  

'Ajuta oamenii, chiar daca stii ca
nu te pot ajuta si ei'.

#Fiction Monday (217) - The importance of signals


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